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Of course, Eamon is quick to note, the young lady in question doesn't actually realize that the bitter little ditty, a left-field blend of doo-wop and hip-hop that has topped the pop charts, is about her.
"I just don't see any reason to tell her," says Eamon. "I wrote the song when I was sixteen. I was young; she was young. But she thinks it's great."
Now twenty, the brash Staten Island native is undaunted by criticism of his cussing ("When my grandmother heard it, she said, 'Are you crazy?' But she's my biggest fan. She still tapes my song every time it comes on the radio. And now she tells me, 'Watch out for those ho's on the road!'").
"A lot of motherfuckers out there don't say what they mean. I do," Eamon says.
Yet while Eamon has taken four-letter kiss-offs to a new high on the pop charts this year, he's hardly the first artist to pen a breakup song that requires a parental-advisory sticker. The last decade, in fact, has seen dozens of rude, crude and thoroughly nasty ways to leave your lover recorded by artists of every stripe. We've picked a select few; if you can track them all down (without, of course, resorting to illegal downloads), they make one vengeful compilation CD.
The Song: "Kim" by Eminem (2000)
The Story: With apologies to Eamon and everyone else on this list, there's really no topping this one, is there? Even if you weren't aware of the utterly twisted history that links Marshall Mathers and his ex-wife, this six-minute murder fantasy would clue you in that no amount of counseling, medication or Dr. Phil could have saved this marriage.
The Kiss-Off: Probably "Sit down, bitch! You move again, I beat the shit outta you!"
The Song: "F.O.D." by Green Day (1994)
The Story: Part of Green Day's mega-selling Dookie, "F.O.D." -- a genteel abbreviation for "Fuck Off and Die" -- struck a blow for every second-generation punk left holding his own.
The Kiss-Off: "You're just a fuck/I can't explain it 'cause I think you suck/I'm taking pride in telling you to fuck off and die."
The Song: "Baby Bitch" by Ween (1994)
The Story: A typical Weenian juxtaposition: an upturned middle finger hidden within a pretty folk song. A gentle way to suggest that an ex-lover perform an act known to be a physical impossibility.
The Kiss-Off: "Baby, baby, baby bitch/I'm better now/Please fuck off."
The Song: "You Oughta Know" by Alanis Morissette (1995)
The Story: As an indicator of how far popular culture has devolved over the past decade, recall that when former teen star Alanis Morissette made her American debut by plaintively inquiring whether her ex's new girlfriend would "go down on you in a theater," it caused something of a sensation. How quaint.
The Kiss-Off: "It was a slap on the face/How quickly I was replaced/Are you thinking of me when you fuck her?"
The Song: "Song for the Dumped" by the Ben Folds Five (1997)
The Story: Even though he was initially branded an angry young man, piano man Ben Folds also drew plenty of comparisons to soft-rocking icons Elton John and Billy Joel. This tune showed he wasn't about to be banished to the lite-FM graveyard without a fight.
The Kiss-Off: "So you wanted to take a break/Slow it down some/And have some space?/Well, fuck you too."
The Song: "Move Bitch" by Ludacris (2001)
The Story: No genre offers more X-rated potential breakup songs than hip-hop; the problem is one of establishing context. Does a composition qualify as an authentic breakup song if it concerns a groupie you met, plowed and discarded within the last fifteen minutes? We must answer no, thus eliminating untold worthy candidates from this list. But if the female in question lasted long enough to get knocked up, look out.
The Kiss-Off: "No, I ain't bitter, I don't give a fuck/But I'm 'a tell you like this, bitch/You better not walk in front of my tour bus."
The Song: "She Hates Me" by Puddle of Mudd (2001)
The Story: Puddle of Mudd's brief heyday as nu-metal flavor of the moment came on the strength of this single. A musical crib from Nirvana and a misogynistic lyrical nod to the band's patron, Fred Durst, "She Hates Me" is one of those songs that really would be nothing without its profanity.
The Kiss-Off: "Then I started to realize/I was living one big lie/She fuckin' hates me."
The Song: "Fuck You Lucy" by Atmosphere (2002)
The Story: This is the song where Atmosphere frontman Slug finally came to grips with his fixation on Lucy Ford, a character who had played a large role in the Minneapolis hip-hop group's discography. A breakup song for the closet neurotic obsessive in all of us.