The above comment is probably someone who lets Oprah, a never-married, control freak, fat-ass lesbian with no family, kids, etc. tell her how to live her life which she has been doing for 30 years now. But a woman who hits her in the head with the TRUTH is vilified. Why? Is she a failed mother? Do her kids roam the streets in packs? Or is she single because her "career" got in the way of a real relationship? Wake up and smell the coffee, ladies! This mess out here is the fault of liberals and feminists who went out of their way to destroy American society. That's why American men are marrying Asian women by the millions (or haven't you noticed?) In another 50 years, nobody will want an American wife at all because they just don't get it!