Thursday, January 24, 2013

Everyone Has the Flu: Will Karaoke Give Me a Disease?

Posted By on Thu, Jan 24, 2013 at 8:25 AM

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One time, I was waiting and waiting for my song to come up -- the only one I had submitted to the KJ. Before I knew it, it was the end of the night, and two drunk girls who had already been up multiple times were called up to sing the last song. I went up to the KJ and politely told her that I hadn't been called at all, and she apologized and kicked the girls off the stage so that I could sing my song. I was glad she did that, of course, but I have a feeling she let the other girls sing so much because they tipped her. How do you feel about bribery/tipping in karaoke? Is it tacky? -- Tipping the Lion

Are you sure you know what you saw? It's easy to make assumptions from your pub table, but there could be many reasons you weren't called up -- and not all of them are malicious. If your karaoke place uses paper submission slips, your request may have fallen off the KJ's table or out of her jar. If the bar uses an electronic submission method, there may have been a glitch that ate your request. The bar manager may have requested that certain people jump the request line. Perhaps your KJ wasn't paying close enough attention to the hour and didn't realize it was closing time until the drunk girls were already at the microphones. Or maybe the KJ thinks you're a jerk based upon your previous behavior (being demanding with the bar staff, pissing off your friends, etc.) and wanted to put your song off as long as possible.

Then again, maybe you're right -- those girls certainly may have been tipping the KJ. It happens, though not in every bar in every city. I don't agree or disagree with the notion of tipping KJs; tipping is a personal thing as well as a regional thing. People don't often tip KJs here in St. Louis, but it does happen. Sometimes customers tip to have their songs moved up in the queue, and sometimes they just want to show appreciation for a KJ who gives everyone a good time.

If the KJ slots singers based upon tipping, there are really only two things you can do:

1) Play the tipping game, fork $5 over to the KJ yourself and sing your song.

2) Realize that tipping is not something you personally approve of and accept that your song may take longer to come around. Or simply leave.

Just like with forest fire prevention, only you can decide which option is right for you.

From the way you described your karaoke weirdness, I'd imagine that your brushoff was an accident. Because the karaoke host apologized and instantly put you on the stage, she likely had just overlooked your song request. It happens. But no matter if it was an honest mistake or a pay-to-play situation, you did the right thing in talking to the KJ. Hosts really do try to get to as many singers as possible, even when they're accepting tips.

As an in-demand karaoke host at multiple bars and events, Allison Babka receives her share of drunken song dedications, occasionally makes people cry and even has been glorified by a singing psychic. She's considering adding "Call Me Maybe" to her personal karaoke repertoire, and she hates herself for it. Bug her with karaoke nonsense on Twitter at @ambabka, and use #rftkaraoke.

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