Dear Dr. Darcy,Dr. Darcy's answer, after the jump...
My husband often has to travel for his work. I never minded before. He's very successful at what he does -- you'd definitely recognize his name -- and since I married him, I've been able to live the sort of lifestyle that most people can only dream of.
Recently, however, I found a flirtatious text message from another woman on his cell phone. He swears that nothing's going on -- that it's just a silly message from one of his (many) fans. Should I be suspicious?
Texting Is Giving Evil Results
If you've heard that he's got out of town girlfriends, he does. If he goes out of town a lot, then you hear he's got a girlfriend there, he does. If you confront him about it and he says, "No, that's in the past; we're not like that anymore," he's probably lying. "Once a playa, always a playa."
- Virgin Sex for Girls, p. 111
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