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Savage Love: My Boyfriend Blames Me for His Lack of Stamina

Dan Savage tackles your sex questions in this week's Savage Love

By Dan Savage

Oct 28, 2022

There is more to this week's Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to savage.love...

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Savage Love: How Can I Introduce Kink in My Vanilla Marriage?

My partner is open to the idea, but was previously sexually assaulted

By Dan Savage
Oct 12, 2022
Savage Love: I'm a Black Gay Man Looking for Love but Keep Getting Sexually Harassed

Plus, why are gay men always taking my picture as I walk down the street?

By Dan Savage
Oct 5, 2022
Savage Love: My Wife Never Wants to Hear About My Other Lovers

She agreed to be ethically non-monogamous, so what gives?

By Dan Savage
Sep 28, 2022
Savage Love: My Boyfriend Called Out Trivia Answers During Sex

It wasn't difficult trivia, but still....

By Dan Savage
Sep 21, 2022
Savage Love: My Straight Boyfriend Sexts With Another Guy. Is That Common?

Girlfriend checks boyfriend's phone and finds more than she bargained for

By Dan Savage
Sep 15, 2022
Savage Love: Small-Town School Teacher Wants a 'Cunning Linguist' But Can't Use Dating Apps

She doesn't want to deal with nosy parents or former students

By Dan Savage
Sep 7, 2022